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  • This Blog is about creating stories using digital media... video/photos. The purpose is part to help people create Digital Lifebooks, Travel Journals, Memory books, Video Travel Journals.... and part to help parents think through how they will talk to their child about his or her adoption.

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March 2007

March 20, 2007

Red Thread makes a connect

Telling an adoption story, preserving your special moments, can be done with video in varying degrees of impact. Torrie Hansen at Red Thread Stories demonstrates for us how to create an impactful "mini-movie", in her video promo. Telling a story using images and music is a skill and doing it with precision is an art. See if you agree.

"I often hear that adoptive families rarely look back at their adoption video footage. It is too long, too boring, too difficult to hook up the camera to the TV, too shaky, etc etc. And yet video is really the most accurate portrayal of your adoption journey, capturing images and sounds exactly as they occurred in that moment.

A powerful tool to use- Along your adoption journey did you take video footage and photos of your experience? Have you considered using these items to tell your child’s story? Video is powerful. Children relate to moving images, they are captivated by them. This is the premise behind Red Thread Stories. We take the video footage and photos from your adoption journey and turn it into a beautifully crafted movie, set to the music of your choice. The final DVD is no longer than 15 minutes, a perfect duration for your little one. The nature of video allows a more interactive viewing experience than flipping through photographs in a book. It allows the whole family to relive the moments and emotions that brought them together.

Promoting conversations with your child- I recently worked with a family who adopted their daughter from China four years ago. A few weeks after they received the DVD the mother contacted me to explain how the DVD was impacting her daughter, now five years old. Her daughter would watch the video intently, but when it came to the part where her family received her, she crawled into her mother’s lap and curled up in a ball like crawling into a hole.  She eased up when she saw herself lighten up in the video.  She repeated these actions every time she watched it, but knowing the ending she would announce "here comes Happy Baby!"  She went on to ask questions about her adoption that had not come up before. And some wonderful conversations ensued because of it.




Your child has a history. A beginning. A story. One day your child will be old enough to tell her own story. But for now it is your job. As adoptive parents we do the best we can to explain to our children how they came into our family. It isn’t always easy. But it is necessary. So the question becomes “How do we best tell our child’s story?” It must be something your child can relate to. It must be an accurate representation of your family. It must be special and unique."

Torrie (email)
Torrie is an adoptive parent and a professional video producer and editor.


Thank you Torrie. For those with any questions regarding posting articles, or who are interested in discussing your thoughts on having your videos professionally edited and produced contact us at Tapestry Digital. Were big fans of the work Torrie is doing, and we are here to help you find adoption resources.

March 18, 2007

AdoptiveMusic Downloadable Music Clips

We welcome back the folks from AdoptiveMusic. Readers enjoyed their instructional video about how to use music to enhance an adoption story so much that Chuck has offered several clips of his music for your use.

"Adoptive Music is excited to be working with Tapestry Books to provide resources that adoptive families can utilize for the creation of their personal adoption videos. We have put together a special series of music clips that you can download for FREE, to be used for non-commercial use in your personal video. This is our way of helping provide you with one of the tools you need to enhance a digital story for your family's memories, without concern for licensing issues.

Instrumentals:

wayhome1            promise1             polly                    danisong

Lyrics:

promise-lyrics      home-lyrics           homelyrics-2        greatestofthese

It is humbling for us to find that our music has connected with an adoptive family. It is also an honor when our songs are used as the soundtrack for a personnal adoption story. Should you decide to use any of the clips, please let us know. We would love to see how they are implemented, and to link back to you so that others can enjoy your family story as well. All we ask in return is a credit and/or link back to us so that people can find our music. We hope you enjoy the music, and we look forward to seeing your adoption video."

NOTE: Music clips are (c) 2006 Adoptive Music/Final Quest Music (ASCAP). Permission for use is granted for non-commercial use in personal adoption videos only.

Chuck Giacinto  (email)


Again we thank Chuck and AdoptiveMusic for their generosity sharing their music.
The CD "The Spirit of Adoption" , one of Chuck's latest collections of songs, can be previewed and purchased at the Tapestry Bookstore.

March 06, 2007

AdoptiveMusic.com adds music to your videos

Making an Adoption video can be immensely enhanced by the music one selects and the way one adds it. Who better to ask for some pointers than the adoption music maven who produced the wonderful Cd "The Spirit of Adoption" with a feature song by Steven Chapman. I have known Chuck for a little less than a year. An adoptive dad, his enthusiasm for Christian Music and adoption themed story telling are exemplified by his passion for his family, and his desire to help others through his music. Chuck has produced, specifically for Tapestry Digital, a short demonstration of telling a story without and with music.

Chuck & Lynette Giacinto founded AdoptiveMusic.com for the purpose of producing Adoption themed music & songs specifically related to the adoptive family experience, created by artists whose lives have been touched by the miracle of adoption.

"One of the most powerful elements of any movie or television show is the music that is set behind it. The choice of a song or piece of music not only assists in setting the mood, but often single-handedly creates it, driving home the emotion on-screen. A song can have equal impact in the creation of an adoption video. The question we ask ourselves is: How can I choose a song that can do justice to these images that have changed the course of mine and my family's lives ? Here are a couple of considerations with regards to music for your adoption video.

Choice of Song - Your choice of a song determines the soundtrack of one of your most life changing experiences. My suggestion is either a song that is directly adoption-themed, or a love song that you find applicable both in lyric and emotion. When the song fully supports the imagery, it's a match made in Heaven.

Be Creative - Use segments of songs at different times in the video. Toggle back & forth between music and the sounds of the video footage itself. This will take the viewer, as well as yourself, on a ride that follows the imagery more perfectly than perhaps one song can do. The inclusion of the sounds from the video will help draw the viewer into the experience.


The Legalities of Using Music - Here's the big question I get asked often, and the legal boundaries for using music are a touchy subject. I'm going to give you MY opinion with regards to using songs for which I hold the publishing rights to. I am personally honored when a family finds that a song we wrote is their choice to help tell and remember their family story. This is what I consider a non-commercial "in-house" use of the song, I am fine with it and always appreciate a credit or link in return so that people can find our music. As a music production company that has released an adoption-related compilation CD, I am not even allowed to provide 30 second samples of some songs for our customers, as I am not licensed to do so. Will you ever have a problem with a song on a personal adoption video hosted at Google or YouTube ? I highly doubt it. So, ultimately, you have to make your own decision there. (for our complete statement regarding the use of music - http://www.adoptivemusic.com/songdisclaimer.htm )

My best advice on putting music to your adoption video ? Have fun with it. Find music that is so perfect for your video that it seems the writer wrote it just for you. I hope this has been useful to you. Happy video making ! "

Chuck Giacinto (email)    

The CD can be previewed and purchased at the Tapestry Bookstore: "The Spirit of Adoption".

Thank you Chuck, and we look forward to you coming back soon.

March 04, 2007

Fill in the blanks lifebooks

There are a number of fill in the blanks workbooks for both foster and adopted children. We have a strong preference for the digital method or even that of traditional scrapbooking. When parents take the time to think more about the importance of specific issues about their child's adoption they can express it in a more creative way. The process of editing the blanks/pages is replaced with deciding what content to include and how to present it. Even though it may appear to be a daunting task, there is help available. We think with some guidance from someone experienced at asking the right questions, or a book about how children think about adoption, the process of creating a lifebook, or scrapbook, does what it was meant to do. Serve as a facilitator for the parent to talk to the child, and have the child talk to them about the adoption.

So, that said, these books are a succinct way for a child to record and remember the events before he or she was adopted or reunited with their birth family. The fill-in-the-blank pages are there to record information about birthparents, foster care (with room for multiple placements), adoption or reunification memories, and about yourself. Pages that are not relevant can easily be removed.

Fostjour

A Teen Foster Adoption Lifebook: For When I'm Famous
By Beth O'Malley

Handscover



Remember, start saving your photos, keep a journal, and above all else keep in mind that creating a lifebook is a way to help parents think through how they will talk to their child about his or her adoption, and help the child talk about their feelings about adoption.